Kevin LourdCouple Coaching
Kevin Lourd

Couple Coaching

Restore polarity.
Restore desire.

Polarity-based coaching for individuals in a relationship. When the dynamic collapses, I help you see what shifted and rebuild from there.

What brings people here

You love your partner. But something is off.

He’s not present enough

She feels unseen, unheard, emotionally alone. He’s distracted, avoidant, or overwhelmed.

She’s always dysregulated

Constant emotional storms, overthinking, chaos at home. He feels like nothing he does is enough.

The desire is gone

You get along fine. You’re good partners. But the spark died.

He’s not stepping up

Financially, emotionally, in decision-making. She’s carrying the load and resenting it.

How I work

Analytical. Trauma-informed. Polarity-based.

I don't do traditional couples therapy. I work with one person at a time— the individual in the relationship — and I decompose the dynamic along the masculine-feminine axis.

Where did the polarity invert? Where is the masculine not integrated? Where is the feminine not expressed? What collapsed, and why did desire fade?

From there, I build a prioritized action plan with measurable results. This isn't abstract energy talk — it's concrete shifts you can practice between sessions and see the effects of in your relationship.

Non-judgmental listening
A space where you can share anything — without filter, without shame.
Polarity assessment
I identify where each partner sits on the polarity spectrum and what shifted.
Concrete action plan
Prioritized steps you practice between sessions, with visible results.

Why me

35+ years of practice, not theory.

35+
years of polarity practice
100+
workshops facilitated
1,000+
community members led
50+
countries visited
Certified Trauma-Informed Care PractitionerCertified Trauma-Informed Tantra PractitionerISTA Practitioner TrainingRight Use of Power PractitionerRestorative Justice PractitionerNonviolent Communication (NVC)Vipassana & Buddhist Practice

Testimonials

What clients say.

Working with Kevin helped me rethink how I approach dating and connection. I used to hold myself back a lot because I didn't want to make women uncomfortable, which kept things stuck in the “just friends” zone.

Kevin helped me reframe things in a way that still feels respectful but way more confident and natural. Even with limited opportunities, I already feel more comfortable engaging and expressing myself — and I've seen real progress.

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Alex
Coaching client

Pricing

Always starts with a free call.

We begin with a 1-hour discovery call — free, no commitment. If we're a good fit, we go from there.

Single session
€150/ hour

Pay as you go. No commitment.

10-hour package
€135/ hour
Save 10%

10 sessions of 1 hour each.

20-hour package
€120/ hour
Save 20%

20 sessions of 1 hour each.

All sessions are via video call.

Ready to talk?

Book a free 1-hour discovery call. No commitment, no pressure.