Approach

Polarity. Communication. Trauma-informed.

I don’t do traditional couples therapy. I work with one person at a time — at the intersection of polarity and communication. There are masculine and feminine ways to communicate. Learning both, and knowing which to use depending on the situation and the polarity in your couple — that’s what changes the dynamic.

What communication style are you defaulting to? Is it the right one for this situation? What would shift if you chose differently — and what does the polarity in your couple call for?

This isn’t abstract energy talk. Between sessions, you practice communicating differently — and you notice what shifts in the relationship.

Non-judgmental listening

A space where you can share anything — without filter, without shame. Very little surprises me.

Analytical decomposition

I break down the dynamic into clear components: polarity, attachment, power, desire. Then we work on each one.

Right Use of Power

Certified practitioner. I hold the space with ethical awareness of the power dynamic between coach and client.

Sees the positive in everything

Every pattern, even the dysfunctional ones, started as a survival strategy. I help you see what’s underneath.

How it works

1
Free discovery call
1 hour, no commitment. We talk about your situation and I tell you honestly if I can help.
2
Coaching sessions
1-hour sessions via video call. I identify what’s off in the communication dynamic and we define what to practice.
3
Integration
You practice between sessions. Next time, we talk about what shifted and what didn’t, and adjust.

Who this is for

For men

  • •You want to lead your relationship with more presence
  • •You’re stuck in your head and don’t know how to show up
  • •She’s pulling away and you don’t understand why

For women

  • •You want to feel safe enough to open and express your feminine
  • •You’re over-functioning and exhausted from carrying the load
  • •You want desire back but don’t know where to start

For couples

  • •The polarity has collapsed — you’re roommates, not lovers
  • •You need an outside perspective on what shifted
  • •You want direction, not open-ended talk therapy

For singles

  • •You keep ending up in the friend zone
  • •You want to attract through polarity, not performance
  • •You want to understand your own masculine or feminine energy